12 THINGS I LOVE ABOUT SYDNEY: LONDON VS SYDNEY


  • ASIAN CULTURE - I am obsessed with South-East Asia, and Sydney is full of great Asian food, supermarkets, shops, etc. Although I get so excited when I see an Asian supermarket near where I am staying that I end up looking super weird.

  • GROOVY PLACES, CHEAP RENT - Back home coincidently all the areas where actual artistic, cultural, uni students live are super expensive. However in Sydney you can live in a suburb which is awesome yet affordable (for me anyway) 

  • BEACHES - This one is pretty self explanatory. 

  • HOT BOYS, HOT BOYS - Personally, I find the males here so much more attractive. And no, not because they are "Australian and mysterious" or whatever - I have my reasons, they are personal. 

  •  AWESOME MARKETS - Places like Glebe offered me super cheap, wearable fashion as opposed to tacky, Wembley market trends.  

  • K-MART - We don't have one. 'Nuff said. 

  • SUSHI - For the love of all that is good, sushi. It's my favourite food and if I feel like eating it I have to travel 45 minutes away from where I live to get over-priced fish, or put up with Tesco brand which I don't even think can be classed as sushi. However if you live in Sydney you will probably have one or two on your local high street where they serve quick, cheap, amazing Japanese food. (My life sucks)

  • REAL, LONG SUMMERS - No need to explain this one either. 

  • TRAVEL COMMUNITY - So many backpacking communities within the city, I find that most people from Australia (like me) have huge wanderlust. Unlike most people from London, who just want to get pissed on the beach at a hilarious, pathetic and completely uncultured holiday resort. 

  • ONE WITH NATURE - The trees and wildlife here are amazing. I feel so free and wild even in a city. 

  • NO SHOES? COOL - You don't necessarily need to wear shoes here because most people don't (and not just by the beach) 

  • LUST FOR LIFE - People I've met here all lust for either travel or new adventures. With so many outdoor activities, festivals and nature there is so much to do yet they are determined for so much more and I celebrate this greatly. 

Although I will not miss the over-priced cigarettes, inconvenient buses and cockroaches.. 

CHRISTMAS

Merry Christmas to you all, I hope you have had a good one. 
Here in Sydney I had an early family Christmas on the 22nd, (which was lovely). 


I spent Christmas Eve last night on Darling Harbour, it was pretty busy and crowded due to it's central location and because of the fire-works show that was planned. My night consisted of white wine spilling all over my leather satchel, after an hour of waiting finally watching the show, followed by sushi. 
This was the first time in my life (surprisingly) that I have spent Christmas away from London and my family.
Unfortunately the weather hasn't been sunny and hot like I had hoped, because then we could've stereotypically gone to the beach on Christmas. Instead, it's cloudy with mild rain... how boring. 

Overall, this year it didn't really even feel like Christmas, and I wasn't excited at all. Maybe it's because of my age, or just being away from over-enthusiastic Christmas-loving London and all my friends/family. I think it may just be the excitement over Australia overshadowing the Christmas excitement, and I can live with that!


Merry Christmas from Yung Gurl.





[photos by yung gurl]

RANT: MOVING TO JAPAN CONFUSION

NOTE: I am not actually, officially moving to Japan any time soon: I've just been thinking about it on a serious note for some time now. If you are looking to read something about preparation for moving abroad, this is the wrong place. This is no way an accurate post on Japan or it's customs as I have never been. I'm just trying to make sense of some major confusion by venting.

WHAT IS MY PLAN?
If everything goes to plan, in just under two years I will have graduated from college with a music technology and English-teaching qualification, (and hopefully 1 extra English A-level if I can cop it) gotten into university (who knows where), and saved enough money to move to Tokyo. 

WHY?
So I've always pretty much had a great interest with Japan (and no, not because of anime) - most likely because my dad lived there before I was born and I grew up hearing stories about the brilliant, unique culture and I was always surrounded by Japanese food, people, etc. As I grew older the dream started becoming a serious goal. 

NOW FOR THE RANT: 
I'm so confused. Until now I've had no doubts about moving to a completely new place. But as we get closer to 2014 I get closer to Japan and have started to do some early research just to make sure that this is the right choice for me. (I know it's pretty early, I have plenty of time, but I like to plan my future, and I need to save alot of money if I want to ultimately go through with this) The research and the things I'm finding are freaking me out. Now I know this is the internet, where stories and tales are exaggerated - however without actually visiting the place myself, I just don't know what to believe, and it's not like I'm hearing really bizarre, unrealistic things, but things that are certainly putting things in a new perspective for me. 
I've always known that Japan is, well, a little 'weird', but I've always appreciated it's little quirks, in-fact I've found overly-convenient vending machines, giggling Harajuku girls and talking toilets quite refreshing. No doubt Japan's technology and even creative outlets are way more ahead of the West (IMO), and even though certain Westerners have a trouble adapting to even the basics of Japanese culture, I think I will be alright living alongside my favourite food and language. I'm a quick adaptor, and I love to be a part of a culture and make new friends, but doing some heavy research has made me re-consider alot of things.
My sources have been from real girls who live or have lived in Japan, you-tubers, bloggers and those who have just answered questions. 

The Japanese customs are really strict and well-respected, growing up this was only a positive thing for me, as I only heard things such as "Japanese people are super polite" from my dad or "They either read or sleep on the trains, everyone is quiet" which is something I can definitely live with. And even recently discovering that you can't talk on the phone on trains or talk very loudly is something I can respect and live with. 
But when I hear things like, "don't stand out" and "only use chop-sticks with your right hand" - that freaks me out. Although some say most foreigners will get away with making mistakes just for being a foreigner, one of the vloggers 'Gaijin' (foreigner) tips was genuinely "don't do anything different from the Japanese customs or else you will.." - and I quote, "be thought of disrespectful and look like a rude idiot" - and to us, these are simple minor things as small as placing chop-sticks on the table the wrong way round. 
As a strong believer of individualism, I don't know how comfortable I am with these statements, but out of respect (or maybe just out of pure fear) I would try my best not to "stand out" and do everything right anyway. And even though things like chopsticks don't define who we are, I can't get my head around how "standing out" could be a bad thing and acting like a robot is a good thing. It's hard to learn about these "rules" when they have such great creative culture (including fashion) which breaks the whole "don't stand out" thing.
(Although, I do at this point feel as though I am underestimating my tolerance levels, I've visited strict on what you wear countries and I've been okay)

So my second problem (one that some may accuse as minor) is that apparently dating as a Gaijin girl is really hard. Sources have shown that most foreign women have a hard time finding a partner whilst living in Japan. At first, this was hard to believe, but then it actually started making sense. First of all you wouldn't believe how stupid, ignorant and idiotic some of the Western men living in Japan are on these forums. In-fact, I wouldn't even call them males, as they can't handle the "ego-istic bitches"  that Western women apparently are. These so called "charisma men" aim to attract all the Asian women as they are more traditional and girlie to their appeal, (apparently) - and act like pricks when encountering Western females, and to their advantage Japanese girls are completely memorized and desperate to get into a relationship with them. Now obviously, that's not the attitude of all Gaijin guys, charisma men are usually guys who go to Japan as a form of escapism, and where back home they may not get any attention from females, in Japan they certainly do. On the other hand, Japanese men are a completely different story, and a complex one at that. To put it simply: they will stalk you to take pictures of you, and ask you to be hostesses, but won't date you. Wait, what? Apparently Japanese men are extremely attracted and slightly obsessed with Gaijin girls, (there is even something called Gaijin hunters) but they aren't interested in a relationship, ever. I figure that they are convinced that we are not traditional and that we are hard to handle or something (sad face). But in all honesty, if this is really the case, then that sucks. I'm not sure if this the majority or minority but there are definitely exceptions, many girls have happily been married to Japanese guys.  

My third concern is safety - now although Japan is well known for being one of the safest countries, low crime rates in theft and what not, to the extreme where you can leave your iPhone to save your space at a coffee house. But on the negative side, crimes like assault and stalking go unreported and they are quite high. The Japanese police don't really care too much about certain things and plus as it is a Japanese custom to "ignore trouble" it is unlikely that you would get any help from anyone if you are being mugged or assaulted, unlike the UK/US. Foreign women often feel objectified in Japan, because of the stares and comments. But the problem is that the perverts and weirdo's assume that foreign women (as many don't speak Japanese) are easy targets. Property crime, theft and murder rates may be lower than most countries, but men assaulting women is a significant criminal problem in Japan, and the assailants are Japanese men. This certainly puts me off, for obvious reasons that I won't even explain. 

SUMMING UP MY CONFUSION: 

I feel like I'm suffering from culture shock even before getting to Japan. From hearing this to that, not knowing what to believe. But I've taken a massive breather from my research and all I can say is that I'm not going to back away from what I have always wanted just because I am a female. If I become a victim of what society wants us to be, then it will never make any improvements - and so with difficulty, I'm going to continue to do what I want, and that includes moving to Japan. If I'm determined to work hard enough to make it happen then it must be right. Every country has it's flaws, and I am to be tolerant of them.  Recently I have met many people in Sydney (girls and guys) that have been to Japan before and all encourage me to do it, and have re-assured me that it's the right place. Whether I get there in the end or not, it's still going to continue to be my plan. 

-Good Luck to all of you girls who want to move independently to a foreign place from Yung Gurl.  

FLYING TIPS

So I've finally gotten around to writing this post, a young girl can have many problems travelling alone, and flying comfort in economy class is one of them. Here are 8 of my tips for all you frequent or occasional long distance flyers. 


  • AVOID FLYING WHEN SICK - Take care of yourself before your flight, usually before travelling stress levels increase, especially if you have a busy life. This increases chances of getting the sick/falling ill, and trust me, it's really hard to fly when sick. So take care of yourself the best you can prior to your journey.  
  • KEEP HYDRATED - It's really important to keep cool and hydrated, invest in a travel cup for transits and arrivals/departures if possible.
  • LOOSE/ADJUSTABLE CLOTHING -  Scarves, big jumpers, sandals, beanies, it's all so good and to your advantage. 
  • CARRY GUM - Chewing gum is one of the best methods to help you from your ears getting blocked. (I saved a little kid from ear pain whilst flying once by giving him some gum, awesome stuff) 
  • POWER BANKS - Some flights may not provide you with sockets if short distance so invest in a little portable charger to always keep you entertained. (around £20) 
  • FLIGHT OVER 10 HRS? DON'T SLEEP THE NIGHT BEFORE - endure sleep deprivation for however long you can before your flight so you won't have to experience the painful boredom of staying awake.
  • FLIRT WITH THE TICKET DUDE AT THE COUNTER TO GIVE YOU A GOOD SEAT - I'm not kidding, I do it every time. (And the award for the dumbest tip ever goes to... *queue fan fare*)
  • KEEP YOUR CARRY ONS MINIMAL AND LIGHT - saves you leg space and makes things simpler. 

BEACH TALK: SYDNEY BEACHES: #3 COOGEE

Coogee is a beachside suburb of local government area City of Randwick 8 kilometres south-east of the Sydney central business district, in the state of New South WalesAustralia. It is also a part of the Eastern Suburbs of Sydney. 

I really enjoyed going to this beach, it was after taking a swim in Gordon's Bay, a medium sized beach with lot's of food shops and a busy atmosphere. It was really nice to sit and watch the sunset with some friends, until a bunch of eager sea-gulls started pecking at our food. Although, it was pretty entertaining seeing them all fight over a French fry. 
The car-parks were a little inconvenient as there wasn't that much space and it was pretty busy even though it was around evening time. Coo Gee seems like a family beach on first impressions, but there was a wide variety, from kids playing beach ball games to friends having Christmas picnics on the large grass area. 
All in all I enjoyed my time at Coo Gee and it's a pretty relaxed atmosphere. 


[photos by yung gurl]

CAN'T CONTAIN WHEN SHOPPING ABROAD

[ It's currently windy as hell here in Sydney.
I'm pretty happy that I got a Fuji digital camera for my early birthday/Christmas present 2 days ago since I didn't bring my main camera (500d cannon) on this trip. Instead I've been using my iPhone 4 and film camera (cannon) - which you can imagine isn't very practical as I've almost filled up all my phone storage and don't have that much time to develop my film. Although a Fuji digital camera isn't my ideal, it's quick and compact, so I guess I've found my new travelling camera! ]

 bubble tea and stuff, earlier today shopping in Chatswood --->


Spending Christmas time in any city is great because all the sales are on and I love shopping abroad. And in addition to that, Sydney is also filled with beautiful markets that provide you with all sorts of items from cheap second hand clothes to crafted knick knacks. My cousin has a permanent stall at Glebe Markets, so I had the privilege of spending two full days there and bought tons of great pieces at remarkable prices as low as $2.
 I must've bought atleast twenty items just for myself, and not forgetting to mention the bargain shopping I did for my bb's back home. Honestly, I couldn't contain myself. It was all so cheap, and so good! But I guess anyone can go a little over-board when clothing prices are comparable to cans of coke, but when it comes to $60 shoes, that's a no-no...however I went to Westfield in Chatswood today and exactly that.. oops.

What is it about shopping abroad that is so fulfilling? Is it the fear that you will never come across the exact same item again? Or does everything just look somehow, better when you're excited by new cities and atmospheres.. 
Well whatever the reason, I really need to contain myself.. only ten days into my trip and I really don't know how the hell I am going to fit all my purchases into my luggage in a months time..




[photos by yung gurl]

TRAVELLING [SENSIBLY] IN STYLE

Flying 8 hours followed by 14 hours in two days has made me come to my senses on what to wear when travelling, and I've done the liberty of picking out some favourite fashion essentials.

So here are four personal favourites..                                                                                                  


A light, but warm, wide-width scarf. What I love most about scarves is that it can instantly give a really simple look some edge. Great for travelling as it's light and it is compact as it doesn't take that much space. And a benefit for those who are indecisive and moody (me) when travelling, as you can add/remove this item to your look whenever you want. The simple but chic scarf can also be used as a pillow/comfort on planes when not provided. we all know how uncomfortable economy class, especially when flying alone. So get your scarf on, it will be your best travelling buddy. 












A travel-cup. You can chose whether to get a travel mug (plus side, some places give you discount on coffee if you have your own mug) or a cup and straw, I find having one close to me always keeps me hydrated. You can fill it with up water whenever you need to and replace it with purchased soft drinks to your convince. I recently purchased one for only $3 from K-Mart, Sydney. 
 A cap or beanie. This is personal preference, but flying and sleeping on a plane is certainly bound to mess up your hair, and what do you do on a bad hair day? You were a hat! I personally love HUF panels caps and plain beanies. I usually carry around my USA team beanie and marijuana-floral huf cap. Another pro apart from saving a bad hair day is that just like the scarf it takes little space yet makes a big impact on your style.


Sandal-like shoes. Platform shoes are my recent obsession and I recently purchased a black, sturdy-summer pair for $59 from Novo. Wearing boots on a long flight is one of my worst decisions as it's really uncomfortable to get them off/on when the bathroom is necessary and your feet don't smell exactly floral-like. Fashionable, open shoes are perfect, but make sure you carry some spare socks just in case you want to snuggle up in your seat whilst flying. 


OTHER FAVOURITES 

Plain (thin) baggy sweater or light cardigan. Tight fitting white tank top. Long black stretch skirt. Baggy shirt and shorts. Easy to slip off pumps. 


BEACH TALK: SYDNEY BEACHES: #2 GORDONS BAY

Gordon's Bay is south of Clovelly Beach and north of Coogee Beach. Its secluded location is created by the deeply incised gully and sheer sandstone headlands and make it a great spot for snorkelling. 
The first beach I actually swam in in Sydney and the second I've visited. 
A small, quiet area with blue waters and sea-weed infested sand, the tall rocks make a great spot for sun-bathing and hanging out. The waters are a little bit rocky and slippery however it's well worth as the water is usually warm and serene. 
Gordon's Bay is a really calm and relaxing place, I would personally go there often for a swim and hang out.




[photos by yung gurl and crew]

ASIAN MODELS AND FASHION

There are so many times I have walked down the streets of London and seen an Asian person so full of profound style that I literally just stop and stare. I mean, damn, these people know how to dress. Recently looking though a Manifesto magazine in a aiport wHsmith, I came across these gorgeous Asian models too.  What I really like is that they are all quite unique when it comes to their clothing choices. However this will probably not be the case when I (hopefully) move to Japan in two years time, as every country has it's own seasonal trend, and I'm really interested to explore their future trends.
So I suppose you could say that lately I have had a fascination with Asian fashion-culture, and I'm doing my research! I will keep you posted on this topic.



RANT: "FASHION IS STUPID"

On a personal note, I moved locations in Sydney. I'm no longer staying in the quirky suburbs I was before I left for the Blue Mountains, now I'm back in Sydney and staying in a very chic apartment closer to the city with my aunt.

And on a serious note..

It's not rare to hear someone ignorantly say "fashion is stupid" - I hear it all the time, people say it all the time, and to be honest, I used to be one of those people. I mean, I would just think, "over-priced, pretentious looking clothing? get out" - as if there's nothing else to it, completely disregarding what fashion actually is as a phenomenon and evolution. Well this is for those of you who proceed to think that fashion is "stupid" : 

- Any smart person would know that anything creative is art, and art is intelligent. The fashion industry is full of creative designers, directors, artists, etcetera, thus it being an intelligent industry. 

-You're effected by it whether you like it or not. Every single day, you chose to wear certain clothes. You pick out an outfit. Or you just lazily throw on something together. Why? Because it's your personal style? Because you think it looks cool? Or maybe you just want to be comfortable. Whatever reason, you wear clothes like the rest of us. And everything you wear has come from yes, only one industry. Don't be so dim to think that everything in "fashion" has to be labelled Chanel and Prada. Perhaps a few years ago that very same boring old sweater that you found at Primark which you think boldly emphasises the false statement "I don't care what I wear" for you was actually designed by the very same industry that you oh so disrespect. 

-"It promotes anorexia" - firstly, there are more eating disorders that exist other than anorexia. And I'm not just talking about next to ana, bulimia. There are tons and tons of eating disorders, and not everyone effected by them are stick thin.  Although the fashion industry is quite strict on size, it's not personal. It's just about the clothing. Not only do they need a certain size, but it's also a certain height in some cases. And if you haven't noticed, also a certain look. So don't just pressure everything on weight and anorexia unnecessarily. Most models need to be healthy and try to be. You're forgetting that it's much more healthier to exercise and eat well/moderately rather than eat tons of junk food and be inactive. Also, the 90's heroin-chic look is over, so get over it. 

-"It's cynical and egoistic" - Stereotyping doesn't get anyone anywhere. There will always be the few who ruin it for the bunch. Just like the music industry, these days it's filled with shallow pop stars, but it is also filled with amazing,inspiring and original musicians. Then there are the Justin Biebers and One Directions. But there are always the Led Zeppelins and Pink Floyds too. So don't think it's all bad and about "being rich and famous" 
-Most people don't know who really represents fashion. I can assure you that celebrities like Paris Hilton and Kim Kardashian aren't even close. They're just rich. Tabloids and press always seem to do the whole "who's wearing what" thing - and that's not the foundation of fashion. Unfortunately, that's the market. That's what keeps the big houses running with money and mainstream reputation. But underneath all that, it's a whole different artistic world. To the outsider, it can look very very ugly. 

-It's a liberating form of expression - Your personal profound style, that's fashion. Putting a piece of clothing with another creatively, that's fashion. You can express yourself, and tell others about yourself just by what you wear. 

-Trends and fashion are not the same. What everyone wears, that's trend. Everyone following eachother like sheep, copying a socialite or star without even being aware of it, that's trend. A human of fashion is not a victim of trend, we are power dressers. 


-It's beautiful. The photography, the editorials, the runways, the clothes! There is so much out there in the world of fashion and there is almost a place for everyone. The artistic side is beautiful and striking. Fashion takes beauty to another level. High fashion is incomparable to everything else. 

It's a hard thing to grasp and it's sometimes truly just not for everyone. But it's not the unintelligent air-headed parade that people think it is, again, it's a very plagued industry. I mean, the people who represent it, not even always the famous people, are mostly, I admit arrogant and idiotic. But I can assure you those people don't actually know anything about fashion, they just walk into a store and think "Oh this is expensive, so it must be fashionable!" - and this is not what fashion really, truly stands for. To me, It's a profound world full of culture and modern art, shining in the most negative light for everyone on the outside.

On a more personal note:
I have not always been a supporter and lover of fashion, until finally understood it and realised how important it is. In-fact, I think before that, I even despised fashion a little bit. How complicated and confusing it all was, not to mention the only "model" I have associated with being an air-headed ass-hole ex. Just how everyone tries so hard to be "trendy and in fashion" - but ends up being tacky and glammed up, claiming to have class still bothers me. But again, that's just not what true fashion is, and the more you let that bother you, the less you believe in fashion, and the less determined you are to make something out of your style.
 
As a skate photographer, video game, music enthusiast and comic book nerd, fashion was always the last of my personal worries or interests. 
However I always kept to a certain, personal style and it was Coco Chanel who enlightened me, (although I am not a big fan of her or her contradicting views) and not just what she did for women by liberating our style, but also the revolutionary jackets, the shows, the everything. I understood, just by a little bit of research and curious insight that fashion is actually so much different to what we think it is. When you look deep, you find that it's somewhat wonderful and real. My own personal style is influenced by a number of people including some of the top designers, but also certain bands and decades, and I can assure you that I don't buy £400 shoes. 





BEACH TALK: SYDNEY BEACHES: #1 DEE WHY

Dee Why Beach is one of Sydney 's Northern Beaches, and the first beach I ever visited in Sydney.

"An excellent selection of restaurants and cafes on the beachfront strip adds to the finesse. Dee Why has a cozy family feel and meets the needs and expectations of its residents and welcomed visitors." - official aus info site. 


I can't say I got to swim or take a dip by Dee Why beach, but walking along it was most certainly relaxing. With mostly white smooth sand, walking bare foot was the only option. We went there around evening time, and I was still jet-lagged, but despite everything being hazy, I was really aware of the atmosphere. The people at Dee Why were diverse, from old guys fishing to young boys skateboarding on the beach front to surfers. The perfect beach combination! 

Dee Why has is surrounded by tall winter trees and a wide selection of restaurants and cafes, I would recommend fish and chips, Australian fish and chips doesn't even compare to the one's we have in London.
Dee Why is pretty large beach, you can walk along the shore for ages, and to the right further up  the beach you can find a rocky area with little natural pools around the rocks (but they contain tons of sea snails, lol gross). There is also two public pools for those who don't want to swim in the ocean! 

The only negative thing I would say about Dee Why is the amount of noisy birds around the picnic area, unless you're somewhat used to it it can get pretty annoying and intolerable. 

But all in all Dee Why is a relaxing, diverse beach and I think the locals are lucky to have such a great beach that has so much space for different activities, right for every type of beacher! 

[photos by yung gurl]


BLUE MOUNTAINS

First time posting via iPhone.. I'm up in the blue mountains and I have no laptop. 


three things for today: 
1. I saw a kangaroo and they are way funnier than people on the other side of the world think
2. I washed my hair in a waterfall today 
3. If a 2 hour 'bush walk' nearly got me unconscious, then I am really unfit 

The most adventurous thing I've done all year, we walked down to these waterfalls and swam by them, the view overlooked the whole blue mountains "bush" (I still don't get why Australians call the forests that) - anyway, it was spectacular. Being there felt so simple and easy. And it made me realise how different and complex my life is back home in London city.
I mean, think about it. How simple would it be if you lived in the forest - with the the nature, the only thing you would have to be worried about is your survival. No job, no money, no internet, nothing. Just you and the world. 

The Blue Mountains offered me a good experience, amazing views and rainforests. There are tons of look-outs and walks that you can visit.
Walking along Katoomba was nice, always interesting to see the local shops, however to our disappointment by the time we got there they were all closed. (Shops close around 5 up in the Mountains) - later we had a drink with some of the local kids, the remaining few that still live up in the Blue Mountains, most of them moved to Melbourne or Sydney after high school graduation. They were all really friendly and bubbly people, which I'm glad I met. Also, staying in a typical 'Blue Mountain house' which was spacious, wooden and beautifully crafted was great. Although, there were tons of bugs around...

Which reminds me, three other things:

1.Bugs actually have the ability to piss on you 
2. Leeches exist in waterholes
3. Crocodile meat is somewhere in between chicken and fish 

So if you ever visit Australia and love nature, do visit the Blue Mountains! 




[photos by yung gurl & crew]

REVIEW: LOST IN TRANSLATION

19 dec 2013 
"Lost in Translation is a 2003 American comedy-
drama film written and directed by Sofia Coppola.It stars Bill MurrayScarlett JohanssonGiovanni RibisiAnna Faris, and Fumihiro Hayashi. The film revolves around an ageing actor named Bob Harris (Murray) and a recent college graduate named Charlotte (Johansson) who develop a rapport after a chance meeting in a Tokyo hotel. The movie explores themes of lonelinessinsomniaexistential ennui, and culture shock against the backdrop of a modern Japanese city"

I remember having a lust to watch Lost In Translation when I was quite younger, seeing an ad for it somewhere and finding it interesting, however I ultimately never got to it. But I never thought it would be on a flight to Abu Dhabi that I would stumble across it and finally get the chance to watch it. Firstly, I would like to point out that even before watching this film I knew that I would somewhat enjoy it, because it's set in Tokyo, Japan. And I'm forever in love with Tokyo and Japanese culture. However, putting my love for Japan aside, on a completely unbiased note, Lost In Translation is certainly one of the most loveliest, complex and real films I have seen in a long time.




Although I am not a big fan of Bill Murray or Scarlett Johansson, (I mean, Ghost-busters and a Justin Timberlake video? Not that I have anything against the two, but you wouldn't really expect amazing performances from actors if they were only known, in my case, in relation to a cheesy 80's movie and an over-produced music video.) - they did spectacular jobs in portraying their given roles. Murray, plays (kind of in my perspective, perhaps himself, ironically?) an 'ageing actor'  married for 25 years, who is stumbling across a mid-life crisis and Johansson plays a newly wed graduate who has many unanswered wonders and questions about life. The natural contrast between the two is beautiful. 

Charlotte and Bob meet as they are staying at the same hotel, and end up instantly clicking. Charlotte is accompanying her husband on a photography trip but he seems to be always busy working. Bob is forced to deal with unusually demanding Japanese directors and promiscuous women whilst on his trip to shoot a $2 million whisky ad.
 Both bored, restless and dissatisfied with their situation, the two find meet and find an interesting and fun outlet whilst spending time together. After meeting one evening at the hotel bar, Charlotte invites Bob out for a fun night with some of her local friends which marks the beginning of their friendship.

One of my favourite scenes from this movie is when Bob and Charlotte have a heart-to-heart sharing a bed. It honestly made me cry on a plane infront of other people trying to sleep in economy class. (Seriously) - but all personal stories aside, I think it made me feel so much emotion because of how simple yet real it was. They discuss finding who you are, marriage, and if life ever "gets easier". Bob gives Charlotte comforting words of wisdom and advice, "the more you figure out who you are and what you want to be, the less things upset you" 

After a shared adventure in Tokyo it's finally time for them to part and get back to their separate lives, however their goodbye is awkward and tasteless. On his way to the airport Bob spots Charlotte walking in the city and stops his driver to approach her and they share a heart-felt hug and kiss whilst Charlotte's eyes fill with tears. Bob also whispers something unknown into her ear in which she replies "Ok" to. 

I think what I like most about this film is the positive light shown between the age gap, which some may describe as taboo. Despite their age difference and gap between generations, the two characters find much more in common than most would think to find. I have always had an interest with older men, maybe it's because of my love for classic rock or "dad rock" - and let's face it, they are smart, more experienced and charming. But apart from that, I've always enjoyed conversing with them because we connect and admire in the oddest, mutual of ways. I would love to spontaneously meet an interesting man who is different yet similar to me as a person, I would love to let loose and experience an adventure with someone like Bob. Although Charlotte and Bob's relationship is described as romantic in many cases, I think that every girl could form a similar friendship with an older man, that doesn't have to be sexual. 

All in all Lost In Translation is light, easy to watch, comical, yet very meaningful, deep and honest. It portrays a beautiful, innocent friendship and a rare bond between two humans. 


TRAVEL ADVICE: HOW A YOUNG GIRL SURVIVES HEART BREAKING TRANSITS

17 dec 13

Earlier this year, whilst flying to visit my dad in Iran, I had a dodgy 14/16 hour transit in 

Istanbul Sabiha Gokcen International Airport - sixteen on the way, and fourteen on the way 

back. Followed by a shitty budget flight, Pegasus. (Pronounced 'pega-soos' - but it certainly should be pega-SUS') - I would not recommend it. Anyway,
Serious torture.
Now I could've easily gone into the city and perhaps explored Istanbul city a little, killed time, I guess I was insane not to.  
It was probably the fact that I didn't know I could transfer my luggage straight to my final destination and had my luggage on me at all times at the airport. Oh yeah! And I was really, really sick and decided to well, kind of overdose on Paracetamol. What was supposed to be a visit to see my dad became a health disaster, mental and physical.
Most airports are somewhat comforting, free wifi, places to rest, outlets to charge your electronics, lounges, etcetera, but sometimes, you may come across a shitty airport where hardly anyone speaks English and an annoying surround-sound announcement is made every 20-bloody-seconds.

So this is a survival guide for if you shall ever have to face a situation as complex as this - in other words, being stuck in a shitty airport by yourself for a damn long time. 

If you are spending a whole day in an airport alone:

Do's: 
  • Make sure you have your essentials - Toothbrush/paste, make-up, hairbrush, sweater, money, headphones.
  • Prior to your journey, invest in a power bank - a compact and portable charger which can be used for most smartphones at a reasonable price of usually under £20. - Many domestic airports won't provide plug in outlets, and if they do it will probably be different to yours -so just to always be safe invest in a power bank.                                                                                                                       
  • Check with your network provider that the country you are transiting in will provide you with some sort of network. - Whilst travelling to Turkey even before I expected that I would be provided with a network, but I wasn't. I would have to invest in a sim-card to roam with my phone. Roaming is expensive, but buying a Turkish sim-card for only one call isn't exactly worth it. However spending £2 roaming to send one text to your loved ones to let them know that you are safe or tweeting to your followers is worth it. Unless you want to use an over-priced foreign phone card with an auto-operator that doesn't speak English.                
  • Make sure you have books, music, plenty of entertainment - Pretty much the most obvious, but be entertained! It's up to you, this is your call. Take whatever you need to. Download to your hearts content.                                                                                                                                                    
  • Talk to other humans - This will keep your sanity levels high, I find that if I go a long time without speaking to people or venting out, I go a little insane. So if you see another tourist or anyone who looks approachable, go ahead and talk to them!                                                                                   
  • Relax with your money - It's a little hard in some cases, but it's doable,  take time to go to restaurants, café's, stores and buy gifts, indulge.                                                                                     
  • Slow down everything you do - This is my method of killing time, for example,  if you go to eat, spend twice as longer as you normally would eating, sit down at the restaurant for a while, have a drink first, then order some food, then maybe desert..order another drink.. you catch my drift.                                                                                                                              
  • Take a walk - Sitting around and being patient can get tiring, and your body needs exercise, so even in a small airport, and even if you have luggage, take a short walk every couple of hours.                                                                                                                                            
  • Spend hours in the bathroom - Okay, just hear me out, I'm not saying purposely give yourself a stomach ache. I discovered this actually kills alot of time, spend hours infront of the mirror. Brushing your teeth till your hand aches. Perfecting your make-up/hair. This is one of the advantages of being a girl, embrace it! Try out new hairstyles, and you can finally practice perfecting your eye-liner!                                                                                          
  • Try and get some sleep - If the people working in the airport you're staying at aren't completely insane then you will usually be able to sleep (unlike me) - either on the floor or on chairs.                                                                                                                             
  • If you don't need it - transfer your luggage to your destination - You will be much more comfortable walking around only with your essentials.                                                                       
  • Relax, meditate, breathe - Remember that time is always passed, and that it is only hard because you are waiting for it, but in a months time, you will forget all about it. Perspective and keeping calm is key. 

Don't s:  
(STUFF I HAVE DONE THAT LED ME TO INSANITY) 
  • Do not panic - The worst thing you can do, it will increase your stress and tolerance levels, you will often find there might not be any wifi, or that your flight is delayed, in these situations you have to think with perspective and avoid panic.                                               
  • Don't lose it and cry - This is what I did, but to be fair, I was sick and all alone, with no wi-fi, just don't do this. Seriously. People will be mean. 

So even though I spent 32 hours in total at a shitty unwelcoming Istanbul airport and cried infront of people who I've never seen in my life and nearly died of a painkiller overdose (not really) and gave my self more of an illness, I also met some amazing people, gained higher tolerance and became a stronger traveller and person. And I also know an entire airport off my heart. 
I hope you found this post interesting and you have happy transits! 

SYDNEY

16 dec 13
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Living on one side of the world and travelling to the other can be scary, especially at 16, but for me, no biggie. Why? I've been travelling alone half-way since I was fourteen, including spending a total of 32 hours in Istanbul airport alone earlier this year (read about my experience here).
But you know what is really scary, how different London and Sydney are!
I've been here a total of 6 days, what feels to be a lifetime already, and I have no idea why.

Here's a photo of me with some fish 


xxx